Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Smelly Summer

No garbage rules!
This week, the city workers walked out of office and staged a strike after the union and the city government failed to compromise on the negotiation table about the benefits and compensation of the city workers.

Services run by the city, such as garbage collection, child care centres, ferry services, paramedics etc. are going to be affected. So we are heading towards a smelly and dirty summer!



Hilarious! No bins can be used?! This will just cause people to litter more over the place and made it even more dirty on the street! Toronto is supposed to be as clean as in Singapore, if not, even cleaner than Singapore!!!

No plastics rules!
Starting from June 2009, no more plastic bags! In fact, everywhere is going to charge 5cents for every plastics bag. In fact, it really works and people are indeed using less plastics, and of course this is really great news for the environment.

Some changes in lifestyle too. Packaging now changes from plastics bags to paper bags. Will this cause more trees to be cut? Well, some arguements go saying that trees are renewable, but plastics is in-destroyable. Ok, good enough! Other changes in lifestyle, I have to buy garbage bags, otherwise I could be reusing those plastics! Bit of duhhh to buy bags for garbage that is meant to be thrown away anyway!

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After all, I guess it's a good thing, these make people be more conscious NOT to generate garbage unnecessarily; plus more conscientious NOT to use plastics unneccessarily.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Travel Tales

Ok I've got the backlogged postings done up:
- Visit to NYC
- Visit to Vermont

Check this out!

Coming up will be the California trip...I think so...
I lost count of my travels...

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Special Day for the Geminis

It is my birthday today! :)

Some friends told me:
~ age like wine...the older it is, the better it becomes...
~ eat lots of cakes, and make a wish...
~ plus the vanilla almond ice-cream tub!

This year's celebration is bit of different, and I want it to be special.

Sat 30 May: volunteering for the Stratford Express, which is part of the Stratford Festival, where a silent auction will be conducted on the train to/from Stratford. Our company is one of the major partners in the festival and so as volunteers, we will get in exchange of a gourmet dinner plus a pair of free tickets to the performance (musicals, plays etc), yeah!

Sun 31 May: going to have a picnic by the Kews Garden, one the best places in Toronto to roam around for a Sunday afternoon. Have been thinking of a picnic for ages, so I guess this is just another excuse to come out together to enjoy the sun! :) Plus it is also a post-celebration for the 2 Geminis who have birthdays on the same day!

Enjoy and have fun!

Happy Birthday to me :)

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Ex-Presidents in T.O.

George W. Bush, Bill Clinton to appear in T.O.

Updated Tue. Apr. 21 2009 12:57 PM ET
The Canadian Press

TORONTO -- Former U.S. presidents Bill Clinton and George W. Bush will appear together in Toronto on May 29.

The two will appear at the Metro Toronto Convention Centre for their first public meeting since Bush left the White House in January.

The two are expected to discuss challenges facing the world and the United States in a discussion expected to last a couple of hours.


PLUS: We've got this notice from the office!

Demonstration planned for downtown Toronto planned on Friday May 29th, Parking and routes west of Yonge, on or near Front Street could be affected.

Former U.S. President Bill Clinton and George W. Bush will appear at the Metro Toronto Convention Centre in the afternoon, May 29th, 2009. The Toronto Police are anticipating significant public protest from several groups.

***hmmm...well ok, thank you?!***

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Lifestyle of my circle of friends

Had dinner with the Consul General of Singapore today. He and his wife were on a visiting trip to Toronto city. From the interaction, he really has the style of the civil servant ~ the way he talks, the batik shirt he wears, the charisma he holds, the topics he talks about, how well-versed and cultured he is...

Something that I also realized while during the dinner is that I have many friends who pursue interests outside work such as sporting, writing novels, volunteering, hosting comedy shows, designers, song writing, plays in bands, photography, music, painting etc. They are people who have passion to do things that they truely enjoy! Also my circle of friends here in Canada include different professionals such as people in the banking & finance industry, big 4 accounting firms, entrepreneuers, graphics designers, mathematicians, professors, fashion designers, volunteers, makeup artists, nurses etc.

As compared to Singapore, most of my colleagues are all workaholics (like me too), so they invest all their time in the office, thus they don't usually have other hobbies then, other than sleeping, eating and shopping. Those with families will be spending their time for their loved ones. Also my groups of friends are usually the IT people, the engineers, accountants, bankers, financial advisors etc. So this is the type of output and outcomes generated from the system!

No, nothing bad about that, but just the different situations and realities across 2 countries...

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

漂亮的五月天

Spring time!
Bright sunny day!
About 20 degree...
with slight breeze...
Cool and chill...

Donning my fav jacket & scarf,
perfect for a nice slow stroll...

A pretty May day! :)

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Windfall

Having this casual chat just now...
If I have a million dollars, what will I do?

~ study music or literature or cooking
~ buy house for parents or myself
~ travel with my parents or by myself
~ some go to charity dealing with children, youth or seniors
~ give some to my family
~ go into investments
~ save some for rainy days
~ buy gadgets, clothes, books etc

Sometimes it feels good to day-dream for a bit... :)

Tuesday, May 05, 2009

Reality knocks in...hard and strong!!!

One of another manager is laid off again!

It's like being fired, so no notice given at all, they just seize your PC, pack your things to ship to you, and escort you out of the office. Everything just stripped from you instantly!! This is complete madness!

Just like the previous bird flu drama...at this point with the economy recession, and with the swine flu kicking in, it just made everything worst!

Better have some backup plans, jic...

Gloom

Gloom looming around in the office...coz like every other company, lay-off is constantly in progress...

Also it is the performance evaluation period...meaning that people are getting promoted or stagnant...or maybe fired or laid off! yikes!

So its gloom and uncertainty looming around the office... I could feel the stress and tense even though I'm miles away from office!

Also a few of the managers were laid off, including one of my best friend manager :( Bad! Really bad! sigh...pretty upset about that...

Thursday, April 23, 2009

初念浅,转念深

很有深度的六个字: 初念浅,转念深

“明明已经是綠燈了,前面那辆车为什么还愣著不動,搞什麼鬼?”
我狠狠地按了兩聲罵人的喇叭,前面的車才大夢初醒般地往前開去。

“台北的交通都是這些人害的,到底是不是色盲?紅燈要闖,綠燈卻要停在那裡。會不會開車啊?” 我對著車裡的友人發牢騷,好像自己是全世界最會開車的人。

隔了幾天 “叭。。。”“叭什麼叭?”後面那一部像催命鬼似的車,對我不懷好意地猛按喇叭,我恍惚了一下,抬頭一看原來已經是綠燈了,很無奈地踩了油門。

昨天媽媽生病,住進了加護病房。哥哥正和我商量什麼時候讓媽媽開刀的事。一方面想著她年紀這麼大,動手術會不會危險?可是如果不動心術,擺著勢必惡化,心裡的掙扎難以言喻。

剛剛暫時的失神是因為正在思索這件事,才沒看到紅綠燈,後面那部車幹嘛沒耐心,又不是趕投胎。我獨自開著車,心裡咕噥著。

人,容易什麼事都從自己的角度出發,直到明白了真相。

在書上看到這麼一則故事:

作者在紐約地鐵搭車的時候,有一個小男孩在車廂裡又哭又鬧,而看起來像爸爸的男人,卻坐在原處文風不動。

大家對這個現象非常反感,但都敢怒不敢言。作者挺身而出質問那個男人:“你沒看到你的孩子這麼吵鬧嗎?你應該管管他啊!”

男人這才回過神來:“對不起!我這孩子的媽媽兩個鐘頭前在醫院過世,我正在想以後要怎麼辦?所以。。。真的對不起!”作者突然間好後悔自己的殘忍。

似乎, 我們總是很輕易地去責怪別人。 也總是認為別人為什麼不明就裡,不能體諒我們呢?

“設身處地”是很容易懂的道理,實踐起來卻不容易。

但是,我們也不要因為這樣而沮喪,必竟我們都是凡人,我們都有立即的情緒,只是當我們要採取行動前,是否可以再寬容地想一下,或許對方面臨人生的重大困境或抉擇。

第一個念頭是對事件的情緒反應,通常較膚淺,也容易造成誤會;但一轉念,腦海裡會為對方找尋可能的理由。

如此,心情一寬,憤怒也就消失無蹤了,很多不必要的紛爭就不會發生 。

嗯,以後我在紅綠燈下可得有一點點耐心,因為前一輛車的主人,可能正在經歷一齣驚濤駭浪的故事呢!

生命中總有挫折,但那不是盡頭,只是在提醒你:该转弯了!