Monday, August 31, 2009

Summer Adventures

It's end of August now, the official end of summer, but I wish summer continues...can't imagine August is over now, time really flies! Time is going into the next season soon!

This summer has been mild so far, with temperatures hovering only around 20-25 degree, no higher than 30 degree. Only a few days came with over 30 degree!

I had a great wonderful summer!!! :) Did lots of things, went to lots of place, met lots of people, enjoyed loads of laughters! :)
~ camping
~ road trips
~ beaches
~ bbq gatherings
~ summerlicious
~ biking trips
~ birthday parties
~ festivals (pride parade, jazz fest, busker fest, country fest etc...)
~ driving lessons
~ piano lessons

This summer, I spent lots of time planning for trips, just like those days in Brussels, making big plans about the next adventures all the time. Also enjoying the company of old friends now. Just want to keep up and catch up with existing friends here. No point making new friends when you don't even have time for the existing old friends. As the colder days come along, hope to get my blog postings up to date! Loads of backlogs!

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

這一生中,你錯過了什麼?

太太在二十五歲時問丈夫,丈夫沮喪的回答她:我錯過一個新的工作機會。

三十五歲時,丈夫生氣的告訴她:我剛錯過了一班公車。

四十五歲時,丈夫傷心的說:我錯過與親人見最後一面。

五十五歲時,丈夫失望的回答:我錯過了退休的好時機。

六十五歲時,丈夫匆匆的答說:我錯過了看牙醫的時間。

一如往常的,太太總是回以微笑,而微笑中總帶著落寞。

七十五歲那年,太太不再問先生了,此時,先生正跪坐在病危的太太面前,想起太太每隔一段時間,總要問他的問題,他反過來問太太,而太太的微笑中帶著解脫回答:這一生,我沒有錯過你!

此時,先生早已淚流滿面,原以為兩人可以永遠在一起,所以,終日忙著工作與繁瑣的事,卻從不曾用心體貼朝夕相處的另一半,先生緊抱著太太說:這輩子,我錯過妳五十年來的深情……

繁忙的都市裡,有著許多為工作打拚的人, 大家總習慣於把工作當成生活的重心,為了滿足社會的價值,不惜出賣自己的時間與身體,捨不得多花時間投資健康,以至於錯過了陪同孩子成長的機會、忽略了身旁關心自己的親友、輕忽了自己的身體。

珍惜,果真要在錯過後才能感受?沒有人知道明年今日會怎麼?

人世無常,趕緊把握當下,把心中的感激告訴愛你的人、用行動關心你的家人,把每一天都當成人生的最後一段,即使走了,也能讓自己及身旁的人了無遺憾。

我想我或許也有錯過了些什麼,但是要珍惜已擁有的更重要……

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Shoes

Half the summer is gone, so are the sales, more than half price, and more than half gone; and I have not really shop for anything for myself, I mean shoes!

Went shoes-shopping today, this thought just triggered and spinned around my head all the time as I hopped from shops to shops...

~ Shoes that are stylish are not comfortable; shoes that are stylish and comfortable are not fitting (no right size); shoes that are stylish and comfortable and fitting are too expensive; shoes that are stylish and comfortable and fitting and affordable are already taken by someone else! ~

Is this also equivalent to finding the Mr. Right in life? Damn**it's just tough to find the right blink!!!

Obviously today is not a fruitful shopping spree and I have not gotten any RIGHT shoes at all!!!

~ Adding on ~ Shoes that are stylish, comfortable, fitting, affordable and available just don't last long! ~ sigh!

Thursday, July 02, 2009

Visit to California - San Francisco

27 Apr 2009 - 6 May 2009

So I did went to California afterall - a trip to shake off those stressful moments from the film festival and from work, plus to meet up with some friend there.

This was how the itinerary looked like:
27 ~ 28: arrived in San Francisco (in California)
29 ~ 1: in Las Vegas (in Nevada) & Grand Canyon (in Arizona)
2 ~ 4: in Los Angeles (in California)
5 ~ 6: back to San Francisco

3 states and 3 cities in 10 days! :)

Took the flight from Toronto to San Francisco, with transit in NYC. So I was back to the Big Apple City, such a dejavu!!! Arrived in LGA airport and needed to move quickly to the other airport at JFK. No wonder it was cheaper! Indirectly got ripped off and waste of time! Anyway, taught me to read the connection airport codes properly! >.<


Welcome to NYC! Photo of the city from the plane...

Finally reached SF in the late noon. Took the BART system to the city. The BART seems like the MRT system, so similar...My first day in the hostel, I met a Sporean, wah... such rare species! Haa!


First impression of SF is that it is very hilly, lots of ups and downs; it's like I am hiking all the time! Must wear very good trekking shoes! And also good way of exercise! See how the steep the roads could be, cars are parked at such steep gradient, about 45 degrees. Thus it is really a test of one's driving skills in SF!


One of the oldest transportation in SF is the "Cable Car" - yes - they called this the cable car, though it seems more like a tram or streetcar. It is not the usual cable cars that we know (ie. those little round capsules that hang about from the air), but it has suspension mechanism built in to allow it to comb the steep streets without slipping and losing control. It is still a manual process, with operators riding the cars, and of course, very much a touristy way of transport.


The Transamerica Pyramid is the tallest and most recognizable skyscraper in the SF skyline.


SF Chinatown is the largest Chinatown outside of Asia as well as the oldest Chinatown in North America.


Met up with LH on Pier 39 and set off for the island...on the ferry to Alcatraz Island...


Alcatraz (aka The Rock) early-on served as a lighthouse, a military fortification, a military prison, and a federal prison until 1963. The presence of infamous inmates like Al "Scarface" Capone, and the "Birdman" Robert Stroud helped to establish the island's notoriety. To this day, Alcatraz is best known as one of the world's most legendary prisons.


From Alcatraz Island, looking out to the city of SF. Quite a torment for the prisoners...The tour around the prison reminded me of the movie, A Green Mile, cold and sad and tough...


Looking out to Alcatraz Island from the main land...


Alcatraz Island is isolated in the SF bay which makes it a perfect place as a prison with no escape. After the prison was closed, in 1969, a group of Native American political activists selected Alcatraz as a place to make a stand. Echoing the 1626 purchase of Manhattan Island, the Indians of All Tribes offered to buy Alcatraz from the federal government. Media coverage and public support soon dwindled that subsequently led to the fall of the 19-month occupation.


Central downtown square in SF...


Fisherman's Wharf is famous for its Italian seafood restaurants with waterfront views. Vendors along Jefferson Street sell Dungeness crab from steaming cauldrons and clam chowder in a sour-dough bread bowl, a signature San Francisco dish.


Luxury 6-stars Fairmont Hotel


1111 California Street - Nob Hill Masonic Center - event for exhibitions, orchestras, banquets etc...

California Street is one of the highest peaks around downtown, once passed the street, get ready to descend downhill on both sides...


Grace Cathedral on Nob Hill, just opposite of the Masonic Center.

Several unique aspects of the building are the Memorial Sculpture topping the east end of the California Street wall. The sculpture is dominated by four huge figures, each 12 feet high, representing branches of the Country’s Armed Forces. Adjoining these a frieze of 14 smaller marble figures depict a titanic tug-of-war in the global struggle between the forces of good and evil. Below this portrayal is a dedicatory inscription, “dedicated to Our Masonic Brethren Who Died in the Cause of Freedom.” This relief was crafted by renowned California artist Emile Norman.


I was back to SF on the last day to catch the iconic Golden Gate Bridge! Often shrouded in thick fog, the bridge sways 27 feet to withstand winds of up to 100 miles per hour. The colour of the bridge, known as international orange, was chosen because it blends well with the bridge's natural surroundings. The two great cables contain enough strands of steel wire to encircle the equator three times.

Straight streets!


Located on the Russian Hill district, Lombard Street is known as "the crookedest street in the world" because of its 8 sharp turns on a 40-degree slope. The turns, known as switchbacks, were built in the 1920s to allow traffic to descend the steep incline. The street zigzags around beautifully pruned flowers and offers a nice view of the bay.


Saints Peter and Paul Church is a Roman Catholic Church in the North Beach neighbourhood.

Flight back home sweet home to Toronto! :)

SF is the first and last city of this west coast holidays. It is also one of my favourite cities, like those hills and oceans and bridges! Very scenic and dynamic place! :)

Wednesday, July 01, 2009

七種不需本錢的布施

一、和顏施:對於別人給予和顏悅色的布施。

二、言施:向人說好話的布施,存好心做好事,做好人說好話,並勉人切實力行。

三、心施:為對方設想的心,體貼眾生的心的布施。

四、眼施:用慈愛和氣的眼神看人。

五、身施:身體力行幫助別人。

六、座施:讓座給需要的人的布施。

七、察施:不用問對方就能察覺對方的心,並給予相對其所需的方便的布施。

Monday, June 29, 2009

Pride Display

28 June is the Pride Parade in Toronto. Pride is represented by a rainbow of 6 colours. Pride is a colourful event, just like how colourful the lifes of the involved parties...



Different interest groups participated in the parade, including AIDS awareness groups, government bodies, corporations, and even the policies, firemen etc.



Men and women flexing in their skimpies or nakedness are always an attraction, all shapes & sizes! Censorship in action: no naked pictures to be posted ;) sorry!



Cross-dressing - reminds me of the AIESEC times - our recruitment camps!



In the last 8 years, same-sex marriage has become legal in 7 countries. The first ceremonies were performed in the Netherlands in 2001. Belgium followed in 2003, Canada and Spain in 2005 and South Africa in 2006. The most recent countries to allow same-sex marriage are Norway, which introduced the law in 2008, and Sweden, in May of this year.

In most parts of the world, same-sex relationships still remain as a controversial issue. Some points of view from different sources to share:
~~ If using the Bible as the standard, is same-sex relationship considered a wrong thing? However, lots of churches are already accepting the novice act, how come?!
~~ The used-to-be-minority group used to be a minority, or rather they are living in seclusion. However, it has evolved to a situation that if you are not accepting it, you are considered an outcast, in such a way that you are being forced to accept them?
~~ Another counter arguement is that, the society is constantly being shaped by human activities, changes in thoughts and lifestyles. Example, over the decades, divorce is already legalized and accepted, despite of the fact that the couple once exchanged their vows in presence of God.
~~ Overall, as long as these people are happy with their life, and they don't do anything to harm others, then go ahead! Enjoy life!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Smelly Summer

No garbage rules!
This week, the city workers walked out of office and staged a strike after the union and the city government failed to compromise on the negotiation table about the benefits and compensation of the city workers.

Services run by the city, such as garbage collection, child care centres, ferry services, paramedics etc. are going to be affected. So we are heading towards a smelly and dirty summer!



Hilarious! No bins can be used?! This will just cause people to litter more over the place and made it even more dirty on the street! Toronto is supposed to be as clean as in Singapore, if not, even cleaner than Singapore!!!

No plastics rules!
Starting from June 2009, no more plastic bags! In fact, everywhere is going to charge 5cents for every plastics bag. In fact, it really works and people are indeed using less plastics, and of course this is really great news for the environment.

Some changes in lifestyle too. Packaging now changes from plastics bags to paper bags. Will this cause more trees to be cut? Well, some arguements go saying that trees are renewable, but plastics is in-destroyable. Ok, good enough! Other changes in lifestyle, I have to buy garbage bags, otherwise I could be reusing those plastics! Bit of duhhh to buy bags for garbage that is meant to be thrown away anyway!

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After all, I guess it's a good thing, these make people be more conscious NOT to generate garbage unnecessarily; plus more conscientious NOT to use plastics unneccessarily.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Travel Tales

Ok I've got the backlogged postings done up:
- Visit to NYC
- Visit to Vermont

Check this out!

Coming up will be the California trip...I think so...
I lost count of my travels...

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Harbourfront @ Dusk

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Special Day for the Geminis

It is my birthday today! :)

Some friends told me:
~ age like wine...the older it is, the better it becomes...
~ eat lots of cakes, and make a wish...
~ plus the vanilla almond ice-cream tub!

This year's celebration is bit of different, and I want it to be special.

Sat 30 May: volunteering for the Stratford Express, which is part of the Stratford Festival, where a silent auction will be conducted on the train to/from Stratford. Our company is one of the major partners in the festival and so as volunteers, we will get in exchange of a gourmet dinner plus a pair of free tickets to the performance (musicals, plays etc), yeah!

Sun 31 May: going to have a picnic by the Kews Garden, one the best places in Toronto to roam around for a Sunday afternoon. Have been thinking of a picnic for ages, so I guess this is just another excuse to come out together to enjoy the sun! :) Plus it is also a post-celebration for the 2 Geminis who have birthdays on the same day!

Enjoy and have fun!

Happy Birthday to me :)